But first, an important disclaimer: I am not a medical professional and nothing written below should be considered medical advice. These are my own opinions about resources that have been helpful to me.
Nearly all of us have been vastly undereducated about how our bodies work. For example, most women don’t know that the signs of a heart attack present differently in women than they do in men. Or if we do, we don’t know what those symptoms are.
Now you do.
And, for the most part, our understanding of menopause beyond, “it’s a weird few years of hot flashes and plummeting estrogen where our periods get wonky and eventually stop” is nonexistent. The primary problem here is that we don’t know the right questions to ask, nor do we pay attention to symptoms as we would if we knew what we were looking for. What do plummeting estrogen levels even mean for us?
Another problem is that there are LOADS of people out there promoting b.s. health information — targeting women with bogus and expensive products that not only do not help, but many do active harm. When we lack thorough, accurate information, it’s easy to get scammed. It’s a mess.
So what’s to be done?
I have some ideas
Find the trustworthy sources and ignore everyone else.
Spend time reading and learning about your health and your body. Everyone is busy. Your life and health are worth it, though.
If a doctor or nurse or “health expert” is also selling supplements or “miracle cures,” be aware of the conflict of interest.
Be discerning when people quote medical research or say “studies show.” There are all kinds of research and studies. Some more valid than others. Most often, problematic claims are based on a single research study with a very small sample size published years ago. Or using only animals. Or funded by pharmaceutical companies or lobbies or supplement manufacturers. To save you from reading through tons of PubMed articles (assuming that’s not your thing), go back to number one. Find a trustworthy expert and listen to them.
Two professionals I trust:
1. For all things women’s health: Dr. Jen Gunter.
She’s not selling anything except information, in the form of books and deep-dive articles on her science-based Substack, The Vajenda (how ‘bout that name!). Here’s one:
I highly recommend all three of her books. I trust the information she provides. And I guarantee you’ll learn something.
You can find her books here:
The Menopause Manifesto
Blood (just released in January 2024)
The Vagina Bible.
If you like podcasts, Dr. Gunter did a 25-episode series with TED Audio Collective called Body Stuff that’s worth a listen.
*The easiest thing to do is to follow her on Instagram where she debunks myths around menopause and women’s health in general and goes after the accounts shilling bogus ideas and products. For example:
2. For stress and burnout as they specifically relate to women:
The book Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by sisters Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. and Amelia Nagoski, AMD can’t be beat.
I think this book is a must-read for every woman. If you want to know more before diving in, check out this 18-minute TED interview of the authors discussing the topic.
It’s confusing out there. Let’s learn what we can.
xo,
Beth
Hi Beth, new follower here from Switzerland! I saw your "meet the reader"" post on Frugal Girl, and feel we're like minded 😊 I'm 38 and starting to experience hot flashes, so definitely need to learn more about menopause. Women in my family hardly had any symptoms, so they can't really help.
Thanks for recommending Dr Gunther, will definitely look into her work. Also fully agree with you re the Nagoski sisters. Another book was really eye opening for me : Drop the Ball by Tiffany Dufu (especially as a control freak, it's helped me loosen up and reduce stress). Thanks again for sharing and nice to e-meet you 👋